Does your youth bowler shut down when they see that
YOU are nervous or stressed?


Change the tone of the day, for them and yourself, with our ebook exclusively for parents of youth bowlers.

This guide is for YOU if...

  • you're in an endless cycle of frustration with your youth bowler


  • you're typically worried that your reactions - whether it's cheering too loudly or showing frustration - might affect your child's focus or confidence


  • it feels like no matter what you do, your body language, tone of voice, and comments all result in your youth bowler rolling their eyes and sighing with annoyance

Learn to stay calm
no matter the potential outcome.
Build a stronger, more empathetic relationship.
Know exactly when and how to support them (because they trust you'll do it).

I guarantee when you use these actionable strategies, 


your bowler will feel more confident.

Whether you’re a first-time tournament parent or have watched countless games from the concourse, this eBook will equip you with actionable strategies to stay calm, centered, and supportive. By applying these techniques, you’ll not only help your bowler feel more confident but also enjoy the process of competition together.

Coach Tamara Petrin is pioneering a transformative shift 

in youth bowling.

A former successful youth bowler, I competed for two nationally ranked collegiate programs and ranked in the top three for Rookie of the Year standings during my freshman year. Despite early achievements, my collegiate journey ended with two years of eligibility remaining as I struggled with severe performance anxiety, relentless self-doubt, and overwhelming stress that clouded my confidence and joy for the game. ​


 Through Mindset Gear, I am driven by a relentless passion to ensure that no bowler ever feels powerless in the face of their struggles, equipping them with the tools to take control of their emotions, reclaim their confidence, and thrive both on and off the lanes.

"[After my son trained with Tamara], I was able to talk to him and surprisingly he asked for help and never gave me an excuse or attitude when I told him what I thought he needed to do. To watch him do his thing was fun to watch!"

Parent of youth bowler
Hawaii

"Each week I'm excited to learn something more about [my son] that I never would have gotten to know outside of your lessons. I like learning how his mind works and how I can meet him in this space!"

Parent of collegiate bowler
Tennessee

"[My daughter] along with myself have been struggling with how to deal with things involving her bowling. We butt heads regularly, we both want the same things for her but we just don't agree on how to push her to achieve them. Well she has been working with Tamara Petrin and Mindset Gear for just under a couple of months now. Let me just tell you how much this has made a huge difference in not just her bowling, but also her life off of the lanes, in the proshop where she works, and at home."

Parent of youth bowler
North Carolina

"Eveniet quam natus et commodi minus consequuntur enim iure magnam nam fugit voluptas."

Samantha
CEO / Founder
This easy-to-read ebook with easy-to-apply strategies includes....
Emotion Regulation Exercises
Model the behaviors you want your athlete to have by using your own breathing, focusing, and visualization exercises to mangage your emotions. Because let's be honest, it's pretty stressful releasing control while they're competing.
Conversation Starters
Sometimes it just takes rephrasing what you want to say so they'll begin to listen. Don't let any more critical moments pass you by and leave youth both sitting in the car in silence on the way home.
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Remember to grab the Pre-Routine for Parents Worksheet to make applying the exercises a breeze.

Exclusive worksheet only available right now. You won't find this anywhere else.

Designed to help you develop your own process in preparing as the support person OR the coach/ball rep for the bowler.

Model for your bowler that you take your role seriously, too. Spend time planning and training with your youth bowler together.

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    • How will I get my ebook?
      You will have the opportunity to download your ebook after your purchase is complete. It will be in a PDF format easily designed to view on any device as well as to print at home.
    • Will this really be helpful?
      Yes! Tamara Petrin is a Licensed Master Social Worker and has been coaching parents and children (from birth to young adulthood) to understand their challenges in life and discover, develop, and apply meaningful plans to overcome them. Mindset Gear believes bowling is simply the shared passion and that connects us to you and an incredible vehicle that offers real-life experiences and examples to leverage for change in day-to-day life. If you're willing to be curious and try something new without hesitation, we believe this will be truly a game changer.
    • Can I get my money back?
      If you are truly unhappy with your purchase, please reach out to Tamara Petrin at Tamara@MyMindsetGear.com.